Perfected in pain!

Nothing ever runs smooth in a relationship.

Sometimes in a relationship we have to deal with problems and then these often comes with sadness/frustration/anger and inevitably, tears. It is during these moments we realize how important the other party is, how much we can't live without them in our life, how much we love them etc etc..

And it is after these moments which either the relationship gets stronger and both parties cherish each other more, or the relationship worsens and it ends.

Of cos at such times, I prefer the former, unless of cos it involves infidelity of the other partner, then it's totally a different thing.

I know quarrels isn't exactly a very pleasant thing but as long as the relationship is made stronger after each quarrels, it may be worth it after all. But I don't mean quarrels over very very trivial matters, like.. the most childish.. "why you never call me?"

HAH. That's just a very lousy example.





*Edited


Had been chatting with Yong Xiang for the past few hours regarding relationships. It's always good to hear things from a guy's point of view yah.

Anyway I can't help but agree that words of anger can't be taken too seriously. If you're in a heated argument, you will tend to spout words of anger which they might not actually mean it. So it'd always be good if the angered party do some thinking after completely cooling down, then he/she shall judge the situation when they're all calm rather than angry.

When you're angry, you bound to think the other party let you down or some sort and can't really sort out your feelings straight. Even if you made a decision while you're still agitated, I guess one might regret after they had cooled down.

Always make a decision when you're not angered/frustrated/agitated.




I'm glad we made it through... :)